scold | blame | admonish | chide

What are the differences

Posted by Eirik on 25 May, 2024

Scold

Most intense and informal. Focuses on sharp criticism and often delivered angrily or with frustration.

  • Targets a specific behavior or action.
  • Aims to correct the person’s behavior in the moment.
  • Can be used for minor or major offenses.
  • “I scolded my child for running into the street.” (Focuses on immediate correction)

Blame

Focuses on assigning responsibility for a negative outcome.

  • Can be directed towards a person, object, or situation.
  • Often carries a stronger sense of accusation than scolding.
  • Might be used for more serious situations.
  • “She blamed the rain for ruining the picnic.” (Focuses on assigning responsibility)

Admonish

More formal than scold and carries a milder tone. Focuses on warning someone about their behavior and the potential consequences.

  • Aims to encourage better future actions.
  • “The teacher admonished the student for talking in class.” (Focuses on future improvement)

Chiding

Least intense and slightly formal.

  • Expresses mild disapproval or gentle criticism, often in a way that shows concern.
  • Aims to guide or advise someone.
  • “The librarian chided the children for being too loud.” (Gentle disapproval with a touch of guidance)

Key differences

Feature Scold Blame Admonish Chide
Intensity Most intense Moderate Mild Mildest
Formality Informal Neutral More formal Slightly formal
Focus Correcting behavior Assigning responsibility Warning Guiding/advising
Purpose Immediate correction Explanation Future improvement Gentle suggestion